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‘You Can Be Happy Without A Baby’ - Why That’s Not Wisdom, It’s Gaslighting

anxiety podcast secondary infertility Sep 13, 2025
happy without a baby gaslighting

When I say 'You can be happy without a baby', what happens in your body?

It may seem like it’s a piece of wisdom, sound advice, because yes, of course we know that it’s possible for women to live a joyful content life without children.

However when you are struggling to conceive and someone you turn to for advice and support says this to you it can feel like they have absolutely no idea what’s going on inside of you.

In this new Embrace Fertility podcast episode (my first solo episode since January) I break down:

- Why this common advice backfires
- How it keeps you stuck and
- Why owning your desire for a baby isn’t something you should try to minimise.

If you’re tired of being told to shrink your longing, this episode is your permission slip to feel, want, and be fully seen.

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When Your Subconscious Says ‘Not Yet’: How to Create the Safety Your Body Needs to Conceive

Release hidden blocks and step into readiness for pregnancy - without having to force positivity, track every symptom, or pretend you’re not scared.

✨ What You’ll Learn in This Free Masterclass In just 60 minutes, you’ll discover:

- Why your subconscious might be quietly pressing pause on pregnancy — even while your heart longs for it.

- The link between nervous system safety and conception (and why stress, fear, or past trauma can keep your body in “protection mode”).

- Three simple steps to shift from ‘not yet’ to ‘I’m ready now’ — using subconscious rewiring techniques, nervous system regulation, and visualisation practices.

- A guided subconscious exercise so you leave not just knowing the theory, but actually feeling a shift in your body.

Sign up here www.embracefertility.co.uk/free-class

Maximise Your Chances of Pregnancy Success in 2025 using the Mind-Body Link

Without gaslighting yourself by trying to stay positive or just relax.

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